Anonymous asked: I am a forty-six your old man. I do not feel old. Time dort of went by quick. I never married nor had any kids. I know everyone says this, but, people tell me I look thirty-six. My question is, what sort of insight can you offer to help me be the cool older guy as opposed to the creepy older guy. I have had it go both ways. I have been sought out by women in their twenties and also repelled them. Any thoughts? More on how to act, in general, even just to be considered a desirable friend. TY
This is such stupid advice, but it’s always been the best: just be yourself. It doesn’t matter how you act or what you’re into - if someone is going to think you’re creepy, that’s just what they’re going to think and you shouldn’t let it matter to you. Fuck the girls that are into you and pass on the ones who aren’t - it’s that simple!
Anonymous asked: Do you enjoy pissing, my girlfriend does it all the time when we are out. In her panties,jeans,anywhere, anyhow, its a masive turn on for both of us. I just wonderd if that many girls are realy into it,or do they just do it to please their men ?
Honestly, I’m not into it. I don’t personally know anyone (that I know of) that is into it so I can’t really say what the motive is behind it for some girls.
Anonymous asked: HI
Anonymous asked: I was following you forever but I unfollowed because I didn't think you were coming back, but you did! so boom instant follow :) SP, I really have a problem. I am a virgin and I've been waiting because my long term goal was to find some one I love, but now I've been thinking I should just get it over with. I'm kind of insecure about my body and am still in high school and I wouldn't want any one to talk about me poorly. It would feel terrible. please help!
Sorry for my extended absence, but yay for re-following!
Here’s the thing with virginity: you are the only person that ever gets a say about it. Meaning no one is allowed to make you feel stupid or uncool about losing it. Whether you wait or not, never let anyone feel bad about your decision.
Now I obviously don’t know you at all, but my first instinct would be to say you’re not ready. If you’re even slightly questioning whether or not you should do it, don’t do it. Your first time doesn’t need to be a big romantic event, but it should be something you’re mentally and physically ready for. I didn’t lose mine until my freshman year of college! So whether you’re going to be madly in love with the guy or not, please just make sure it’s what you want to and are ready to do (with no pressure from anyone else!).
Anonymous asked: hey
Anonymous asked: Oh my God I just stumbled across your blog and I think you're totally my soulmate. <3
I like soulmates ;)
Anonymous asked: I love your blog! My friends, being what i'd call total prudes, found out that I made out with a guy who had a girlfriend. It was no big deal for me at all because ive gone farther than that and w/e but now my frinds think im a whore just because of that (granted they dont know im not exactly a virgin) I feel like if they were real friends I could tell them who ive hooked up with and they would be happy for me. How do i tell them that what im doing is fine and they shouldnt hate me for it. xx
Are they upset with you because you made out with a guy that was taken, or just that you made out with someone in general?
If it’s just the making out, tell them to calm the fuck down. It’s just kissing, and it’s your body, you do what you want. (safely, of course)
If it’s the fact that this guy has a girlfriend, there may not be much you can do. People have such different opinions on this subject and it’s never going to be something you can convince someone of otherwise. If you’re okay with what you did, that’s all that really matters. Just know that some people take cheating really seriously, and it can backfire on you if you’re trying to remain neutral.
Anonymous asked: I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend like myself, him, and another girl. I love girls and love eating the box. My boyfriend is also AMAZINGGGG in bed and he says the same about me. We like to do really freaky things (butt sex, rim jobs, etc) and a lot of girls don't like that and it scares them away. Now I've been trying to find a girl who will be down to do us and every single one has backed out. I need a freaky girl and can't find one. HELP
I have this theory that threesomes you seek out never work. Someone gets weird, someone gets feelings, someone gets hurt…there’s just a very large margin for error. Both threesomes I’ve been involved in were spontaneous and with people I never thought would be into them. I think it’s one of those things that needs to happen semi-organically since everything has to be just right for them to work.
I realize this isn’t very good advice, just telling you to wait around until someone falls into your lap (literally). The best thing I think I can tell you is just be open about it with people and see how they respond. I’m not saying scream it from the rooftops that you’re into anal, but if the topic of sex comes up with someone, chances are they won’t cringe at the fact that you’re looking for a third. And who knows, maybe you’ll find someone in the most unlikely of places!